For me, there was never a question in my mind that “breast” WASN’T “best” – I knew it was, and even as a young girl I had been determined to breastfeed my children. My mother had done it with four of us; why couldn’t I? I also happened to have a superb and supportive husband who realized that these round shapely things on my chest were not to pleasure men (primarily, anyway) but rather to provide top-of-the-line nourishment to our offspring.
Unlike what we’ve seen on the television and in the movies, however, many babies do not just instantly latch on and begin to suckle. Breastfeeding, as any new mom will tell you, is definitely a challenge and does take some time for both you and baby to learn how to do it correctly. So where do you start?
La Leche League International
This is the one stop shop for any breastfeeding concerns, questions and quandaries. Whether you simply need more support from other mothers about breastfeeding, or to have your questions answered by a pro, this is where you need to go. They will also be able to assist you in finding any additional classes in your area. La Leche League International truly does understand both how difficult breastfeeding can be and also how important it is that more mothers stick with it rather than revert to formula.
Your Public Health Nurse
Check with your hospital for any free programs and classes that nurses offer to help support you on your breastfeeding journey. Many will take the time both in the hospital and out to help you and your baby succeed at this – and it’s absolutely free!
Doctors and Midwives
Midwives are especially keen on breastfeeding. Mine came to my house every other day for the first two weeks of my son’s life, and followed up with me every week for a month thereafter. She sat down and helped me develop a technique that worked for my child and I. Without her, I’m certain I would have ended up with cracked, sore nipples as many mothers seem to think is necessary for them to suffer through (by the way, it’s NOT necessary!).
The Internet
Looks like you've already thought of this one! There is a load of information available out there on the web about breastfeeding and how to go about it properly. Yes, practice does make perfect, but watching a video (or ten, as I did) before your baby is born will help mentally prepare you for the task that is soon to be yours. Familiarize yourself with the different challenges of breastfeeding, different positions and how your baby should latch on.
Remember, practice makes perfect, and breastfeeding is NO EXCEPTION. Having a baby is hard work, but once you get over the hurdle of breastfeeding woes, every feeding will become a special bonding time for both you and your baby to look forward to.
photo by Aneta Blaszczyk
